A tree with a twisted trunk will not be cut by any lumberjack and will live its whole life in peace, thanks to its uselessness.

Jik

nondoing — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 04:02:33 +0000

Jik flew in to SG for an interview on the 12th, it was so cool. I meet her in person the nxt day.
Asked her to join my ITE gathering. We had steamboat at Xian de Lai followed by drinks at td2.
We went out again on sun, boy can she shop. Met her at paragon and accompany her go shopping. Blissful time was shortlived as she had to fly back in the evening. Hope she fly to SG again or maybe nxt time I will fly over and find her.

sweetest thing

nondoing — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:42:56 +0000

This was an email sent to me a long time ago, recently chance upon it.

Never knew I kept it for so long.

It was sent to me by my ex gf when we were still together..

Guess I failed to do many of the stuff in it.

From: ….
To: —-
Date: Wed, 22 Jun 2005 17:26:33 +0000
Subject: mayb u wan to see this.. READ!!!!FOr ya~~

Message: Not easy to win a galz
heart…..Only real men know how to treat the
woman he
loves. This is the sweetest thing in the world.
Read, Learn, and Put into good use.

1. Tell her she is beautiful, not hot. [Yeah, it shows
that you love her, not her body]

2 . Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a
second. [It shows how much you appreciate her
presence]

3 . Kiss her on the forehead. [It's a loving gesture,
helping her feel secure]

4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
[even
SMS or missed-call will do... Nothing can beat
waking up to the voice/message of your loved one]

5 . Always tell her how beautiful she is, no matter
what she’s wearing. [Again, it shows how much
you treasure her]

6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her
how much she means to you. [sigh... need I say
more?]

7 . Recognize the small things . . . THEY
USUALLY MEAN THE MOST! [it's the tiny bits
and pieces that count]

8 . Call her baby.

9 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice
is.[trust me, girls love it when guys sing to them]

10 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out
with. [Yeah, and show her to them]

11 . Write her notes. [to make her feel that she's
always on your mind]

12 . Introduce her to family and friends as your
girlfriend. [it shows how much you want her to be
a
part of you]

13 . Play with her hair.

14 . Pick her up, tickle her and play-wrestle with
her.

15 . Sit in the park and just talk to her. [you never
know what will she say]

16 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just
tell her jokes. [but make sure that it's the right
time for jokes]

17 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of
the night just because you missed her.

18 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.[sigh...
heaven...]

19 . Carve your names into a tree. [for memory
sake]

20 . If she’s mad at you, apologize because SHE is
always right.

21 . CUDDLE.

22 . Bring her flowers just because u love
her. [although some girls will say that they hate
flowers, but still, chances of them being touched
is
very, very high]

23 . Treat her the same around your friends as you
do when you’re alone. [this means a LOT to her,
and it shows a lot about you as well]

24 . Look her in the eyes and smile.[Believe me it
works..it has its own magic]

25 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she
wants. [you trust her, don't you?]

26 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn’t any
music playing. [but don't step on her feet too often]

27 . Kiss her in the rain.

28 . If you r in love with her . . . tell her. [of
course!
unless, of course, she's already with someone...]

Interested or not..

nondoing — Tue, 05 May 2009 14:46:58 +0000

Got to know a gal recently, to say tat I m not interested in her would quite an understatement. But at the same time, I am not really sure how I feel about her.

I have never shower a gal tat i know for such a some time with gifts like i did. My friend got a $50 flora necky for her sister, and she was complaining y she dun have, and my friend offer her a $20 flora necky. So I simply gave her a $50 flora.

Maybe the reason I did tat was, cos her bday was coming.

I went Powerhouse last fri to celebrate of my friend’s bday and at the same time she celebrated her’s at dragonfly.

When I went over to find her, she was already quite drunk.

Felt quite bad cos I didnt bring her any present. So I bought a sliver necky and gave it to her on sat..

Dai Yin Mai and 这种爱

nondoing — Tue, 05 May 2009 14:05:06 +0000

clouded

nondoing — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 13:45:35 +0000

Sometimes our minds do get clouded, the past week i simply cant put her off my mind. I have no idea why this is happening.

I thank God for letting me know her. Is there such thing as love at 1st sight? She has taken over my heart and mind. Yet to think abt it, I dun really know her that well at all.

How is this happening? Love needs no reason, I guess. It can be simplity the feeling that she gives me maybe.

Perhaps I should really think abt it…

But I have really fallen for her…. Isnt that all that matters?

Embracing

nondoing — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 13:53:48 +0000

Last Sat, I saw the girl that i like again, and got tongue tie. There is no such thing as a prefect approach to know her. I had prayed to know her. My friend upon seeing how i had difficultly making the 1st step, took it upon himself to help me out and went over to ask for her contact. She didnt gave her contact, but she did left a name. Then my friend told me that she is japanese.

So armed with my limited japanese pharses, I tried to ask for her contact in japanese. The funny thing happened, she replied in Thai saying she didnt understand. And it was quite a screw up, cos she was actually a chinese, we could have simply talk in chinese or english.

Sometime simple words could be the best. I finally strike up much more of a conversation with her again on sat and even managed to get her contact.

SETTING YOURSELF FREE

nondoing — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 12:57:33 +0000

DailyOM article: SETTING YOURSELF FREE

“When we make mistakes, we think that we are failing or not measuring up. But if life is about experimenting, experiencing, and learning, then to be imperfect is a prerequisite. Life becomes much more interesting once we let go of our quest for perfection and aspire for imperfection instead. This doesn’t mean that we don’t strive to be our best. We simply accept that there is no such thing as perfection—especially in life. All living things are in a ceaseless state of movement. Even as you read this, your hair is growing, your cells are dying and being reborn, and your blood is moving through your veins. Your life changes more than it stays the same. Perfection may happen in a moment, but it will not last because it is an impermanent state. Trying to hold on to perfection or forcing it to happen causes frustration and unhappiness. In spite of this, many of us are in the habit of trying to be perfect. One way to nudge ourselves out of this tendency is to look at our lives and notice that no one is judging us to see whether or not we are perfect. Sometimes, perfectionism is a holdover from our childhood—an ideal we inherited from a demanding parent. We are adults now, and we can choose to let go of the need to perform for someone else’s approval. Similarly, we can choose to experience the universe as a loving place where we are free to be imperfect. Once we realize this, we can begin to take ourselves less seriously and have more fun. Imperfection is inherent to being human. By embracing your imperfections, you embrace yourself.”

Taylor Swift – Love Story

nondoing — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 16:06:42 +0000

We were both young when I first saw you
I close my eyes
And the flashback starts
I’m standing there
On a balcony in summer air

See the lights
See the party, the ball gowns
I see you make your way through the crowd
And say hello, little did I know

That you were Romeo, you were throwing pebbles
And my daddy said stay away from Juliet
And I was crying on the staircase
Begging you please don’t go, and I said

Romeo take me somewhere we can be alone
I’ll be waiting all there’s left to do is run
You’ll be the prince and I’ll be the princess
It’s a love story baby just say yes

So I sneak out to the garden to see you
We keep quiet ’cause we’re dead if they knew
So close your eyes
Escape this town for a little while

‘Cause you were Romeo, I was a scarlet letter
And my daddy said stay away from Juliet
But you were everything to me
I was begging you please don’t go and I said

Romeo take me somewhere we can be alone
I’ll be waiting all there’s left to do is run
You’ll be the prince and I’ll be the princess
It’s a love story baby just say yes

Romeo save me, they try to tell me how to feel
This love is difficult, but it’s real
Don’t be afraid, we’ll make it out of this mess
It’s a love story baby just say yes
Oh oh

I got tired of waiting
Wondering if you were ever coming around
My faith in you is fading
When I met you on the outskirts of town, and I said

Romeo save me I’ve been feeling so alone
I keep waiting for you but you never come
Is this in my head? I don’t know what to think
He knelt to the ground and pulled out a ring

And said, marry me Juliet
You’ll never have to be alone
I love you and that’s all I really know
I talked to your dad, go pick out a white dress
It’s a love story baby just say yes

Oh, oh, oh, oh
‘Cause we were both young when I first saw you

Jason Mraz Lyrics – I’m Yours

nondoing — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 15:59:24 +0000



Well, you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but your so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks, now I'm tryin to get back
before the cool done run out I'll be givin it my best test
and nothin's gonna stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some 

But I won't hesitate no more,
no more, it cannot wait
I'm yours 

Well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you're free
look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We're just one big family
And it's our godforsaken right to be loved loved loved loved loved 

So, i won't hesitate no more,
no more, it cannot wait i'm sure
there's no need to complicate our time is short
this is our fate
I'm yours 

Scooch on over closer, dear
And I will nibble your ear

I've been spendin' way too long checkin' my tongue in the mirror
and bendin' over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
and so I drew a new face and I laughed
I guess what I'd be sayin' is there ain't no better reason
to rid yourself of vanities and just go with the seasons
it's what we aim to do
our name is our virtue 

But I won't hesitate no more,
no more it cannot wait
I'm yours 

Well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you're free
look into your heart and you will find that the sky is yours 

so please don't, please don't, please don't,
there's no need to complicate,
Cause our time is short
This, this, this is our fate,
I'm yours

Colors

nondoing — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 12:10:18 +0000

What do colors mean?

Bright Red
Exciting, energizing, sexy, hot, dynamic, stimulating, provocative, dramatic, aggressive, powerful

Bright Pink
Exciting, happy, hot, attention-getting, energetic, youthful, spirited, fun, trendy, wild

Light Pink
Romantic, soft, sweet, tender, cute, babies, delicate

Dusty Pink
Soft, cozy, subtle, dusky

Mauve
Soft, subdued, quiet, sentimental

Burgundy
Rich, elegant, refined, tasty, expensive, mature

Fuchsia
Bright, exciting, fun, hot, high energy, sensual

Brick Red
Earthy, strong, warm, country

Terracotta
Earthy, warm, wholesome, country, welcoming

Orange
Fun, whimsical, childlike, happy, glowing, vital, sunset, harvest, hot, juicy, tangy, energizing, gregarious, friendly, loud

Peach
Nuturing, soft, fuzzy, delicious, fruity, sweet, inviting

Light Yellow
Cheerful, happy, soft, sunny, warm, sweet

Bright Yellow
Enlilghtening, sunshine, cheerful, friendly, hot, luminous energy

Greenish Yellow
Lemony, tart, fruity, acidic

Golden Yellow
Autumn, flowers, harvest, rich, sun, warm, wheat, comforting, sunbaked, buttery

Cream
Smooth, rich, warm, neutral, soft, classic, delicious

Beige
Classic, sandy, earthy, neutral, soft, warm, bland

Earth brown
Rooted, wholesome, sheltering, masculine, woodsy, warm, durable, secure, rustic, earth, dirt

Coffee or choclate
Rich, delicious

Red Purple
Exciting, sensual, flamboyant, creative, unique

Deep Plum
Expensive, regal, classic, powerful, elegant

Blue Purple
Mystical, spiritual, futuristic, fantasy, meditative

Lavender
Nostalgic, delicate, sweet scented, floral, sweet taste

Grape
Sophisticated, sweet taste, subtle

Orchid
Exotic, flowers, tropical, fragrant

Light Blue
Calm, quiet, peaceful, cool, water, clean

Sky Blue
Calming, cool, heavenly, constant, faithful, true, dependable, happy, restful, tranquil

Teal Blue
Pleasing, rich, classy, expensive, unique

Bright Blue
Electric, energetic, vibrant, flags, stirring, happy, dramatic

Navy
Credible, authoritative, basic, classic, conservative, strong, dependable, traditional, uniforms, service, nautical, confident, professional, serene, quiet

Turquoise
Ocean, tropical, jewelry

Aqua
Cool, fresh, ocean, refreshing, healing

Light Green
Calm, quiet, soothing, neutral

Dark Green
Nature, trustworthy, refreshing, cool, restful, stately, forest, quiet, woodsy, traditional, money

Olive Green
Military, camouflage, safari, classic, drab

Bright Green
Fresh, grass, Irish, lively, spring, foliage, outdoorsy

Bright Yellow-Green
Artsy, sharp, bold, gaudy, trendy, tacky, slimy, sickening

Lime
Tart, acidic, refreshing, fruity, lively

Pure White
Pure, clean, sterile, innocent, silent, lightweight, airy, bright, glistening

Black
Powerful, elegant, mysterious, heavy, basic, bold, classic, strong, expensive, magical, nighttime, invulnerable, prestigious, somber

Charcoal Gray
Professional, classic, expensive, sophisticated, solid, enduring, mature

Neutral Gray
Classic, cool, sober, corporate, practical, timeless, quality, quiet, ghostly

Taupe
Classic, neutral, practical, timeless, quality, basic

Silver
Classic, cool, expensive, money, valuable, futuristic

Gold
Warm, opulent, expensive, radiant, valuable, prestigious